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The Success of Proaction versus Reaction

May 18, 2008

Successful people tend to be more proactive than reactive in their approach to things. As a result, they get more done, readily reach their goals, and experience a higher level of joy and satisfaction.

Here’s a comparison of the behavior and characteristics of the proactive person versus the reactive person:

The Proactive Person

The Reactive Person

Has a plan of action

Wakes up and wonders what’s next

Seeks solutions

Lives in the problem

Takes responsibility

Sees himself as a victim

Intellectually interprets challenging events

Is emotionally hijacked

Strives to be better

Waits to be rescued

Is hopeful

Is doubtful

Adapts to situations

Can’t let go

Feels the fear and does it anyway

Is immobilized by his fears

Is open to new ideas and input

Thinks he knows everything

Experiences true abundance

Always feels like something is missing

Nobody is in the proactive mode 100% of the time. The challenge is that most of our automatic reflexes are rooted in old habits and deep-seated beliefs. But when we’re aware of our reactions, we can make improvements in how we approach things. What we must do is be conscious of how we’re behaving in day-to-day life, and then “act” accordingly.

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